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Let's talk healing

Sips tea and starts writing. Healing process is something hardly spoken about by the general public. No, I'm not talking about healing from physical wounds or death (that's a story for another day). I'm talking about healing from relationships. Specifically, friendships๐Ÿ‘€. One can only imagine the pain of going from talking every day to deleting contact, from smiling at the thought of them to crying about the same thoughts, thinking about all the plans you made with them that you now know fully well will never happen. I'm Not talking about the loss of a friend by death (which by the way I think is a lot easier to deal with), I'm talking about the loss of a friend for no reason mmh.. you heard me right NO REASON. I'm talking about the kind of situation where you wake up one morning and realize your best friend of years has decided you're no longer important to them. No reason, no explanation. Just a sudden cutoff. On today's episode of "let's tal...

Let's talk feminism.

   I was recently scrolling through Twitter (X๐Ÿ˜’) and I realized how quickly the word "feminist" is becoming a slur. Even in everyday life, when you tell an average person that you're a feminist, they look as though they've just seen a ghost. This got me thinking a lot about my stance on feminism, and I came to the conclusion that if the word "feminist" becomes a slur, then I'll  proudly wear that label. One thing about women (AKA angels) - we know how to turn a slur into "our word". For instance, "hoe," "bitch," "BOP," and more. Personally, I can't wait for when the word "ashawo" becomes our own thing LIEF (Laughs In Evil Feminist). Back to business, I might just be one and probably too shy to be bold, but I honestly rather stand alone than succumb to this misogynistic world (AKA Earth). Leaving Twitter or TikTok and coming into the real world (bars ๐Ÿ™‚‍↕๐Ÿ™‚‍↔), I've realized that the feminists we ...